What to do when "children lie"

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What should we do whenSLOTXOour child or child is lying? A problem that everyone has to face at least once in their life. Maybe from our grandchildren when they are lying How do we cope and teach?

First of all, it is important to understand that even adults lie. The average adult lies about 3 times in 10 minutes.

Why do children lie?
in young children Usually under 6 years of age, many times they are still unable to differentiate clearly between imagination and reality. A lie can be an expression of imagination. In older children, lies may be used to avoid certain problems. Common reasons such as

fear of punishment
Chat with friends to increase their impression.
Avoid things you don't want to do, such as homework, cleaning.
I don't want my parents to be disappointed.
feeling unhappy with something in life
try to get attention

What to do when a child is lying
do not punish with violence The punishment had an effect on them being less telling the truth.
find the cause of the problem
Make the children feel comfortable to talk with. listen carefully to the problem
Teach them to recognize the consequences of lying. For example, your child may have to compensate by doing housework that is appropriate for their age.
Teach and explain the disadvantages of lying.
Assess yourself if you are involved in your child's lies.
Compliments create good ideas. To encourage honesty when children choose to tell the truth.
Seek professional help